Dear Steve and Shirley,
My husband is a big-time cheater, and he goes to stay with his brother whenever he gets busted. I wouldnāt have sex with him again, even if he pressure-washed that thing and took antibiotics for a year. I have a side dude to take care of my sexual needs. Heās a handsome, younger, hood dude, but heās a teddy bear with me. I used to do his cousinās hair before she went to jail, and thatās how I met him. His cousin is out of jail now, and she stays at his house sometimes.
I told her about my nasty husband, and she offered to jump on my husband for me. I told her that wouldnāt be necessary. Fast forward to a month ago when my husband came to my salon, raising hell and begging me to let him come home. He made a big scene, and I was stressed out, so I went to my side dudeās house after work to blow off some steam. My psycho husband followed me to my side dudeās house. When I got out of my car, my husband got out of his car, and my side dudeās cousin came outside. She heard the commotion and told my husband that I was there to braid her hair. So, he eventually got in his car and left.
Now, I have a problem with the cousin because she thinks Iām supposed to do her hair free indefinitely. She wants braids next week, and it takes me a full day to do them. I told her I would do one freebie for her, but thatās itāmy time is money. She said itās totally up to me, but sheās expecting to get her hair done for free whenever she needs it. Iām not afraid to tell my husband that I was cheating, but I am afraid of this woman. My side dude said itās between me and his cousin.
How am I supposed to deal with this?