Dear Steve and Shirley,
I am damn near 50 years old and my wife is 40. We’ve been married for almost 10 years and have two children, both under the age of 5. I want to make sure you have all the details. First off, I love my wife, BUT here is the problem... If I want some cookie, I have to initiate it 95% of the time. Sometimes she will initiate it, but it is too rare for me. I don't want to feel like I am forcing her to do something she doesn't want to do, but I think we are both young enough to be having the time of our lives! I have often gone to bed frustrated with the lack of cookie in our life. I have gone to bed naked. I have purchased her sexy lingerie, which she does not wear. I have even told her that sometimes she should initiate the sex, but nothing changes. I think she doesn't feel confident in her bedroom skills, but this leaves me frustrated too, often wondering if I am horrible in bed. She acts like I am the best in the world when we do engage, but I just need her to initiate it more often. I wish she could come and talk to me and tell me if I am not as good in bed as I think I am. I have never cheated on my wife and have no plans to, but I can't keep going to sleep sexually frustrated. What else can I do to have her make the first move? Or am I stuck making the first move forever? Please help.
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