Steve and Shirley,
I am a 25 year old woman. I married my husband when I was 19 years old and I am starting to believe that it was a mistake. We both work. His days off are consistent but my days fluctuate. When I'm off. I clean and cook I take care of our two children and I make sure everyone has what they need, but lately I've been the one who needs to be checked on to make sure I'm good. He waits until I get home and asked me what's for dinner, instead of trying to cook something for himself and the kids. I love my husband and we have fun together, but I don't want to keep feeling depressed and stressed out. I just want him to take the darn trash out and pick up after himself most of the messes aren't just from the kids he's messy too. So I have started withholding sex from him. I'm not in the mood to have sex when my house is not clean. Is it wrong for me to keep the cookie from my husband? Is there a better way to get them to help me out around the house? Please help.
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