In this Strawberry Letter, I am reminded of the infamous lyrics of Ice Cube, " check yo self before you wreck yo self." This lady needs to seriously check herself if she thinks this man is going to stop seeing THEIR "co-worker" to just be with her. He has made it clear what he intends to do and what he intends not to do. But for some reason, she's stuck in some sort of dream where she thinks things are going to end differently. I'm convinced that that even Ray Charles can see through all of these lies!
Take a look:
Dear Steve and Shirley,
My co-worker and I have developed feelings for each other. The problem is, he is already in a situationship with another co-worker. They've been together for more than four years and he says they're not sexually involved, but they spend a lot of time with each other. He doesn't call it a relationship anymore because he says he feels trapped by this woman. He says he doesn't see the situationship going anywhere and he has no plans to marry her. He told me that he won't let her go completely, because he knows it will crush her. She knows that he and I are really close and she suspects that we have feelings for each other. When she asked him about us, he denied everything. He honestly has a big heart and he is torn. This is the first time I've fallen for someone this hard and I want him all to myself, but I would never wish heartbreak on another woman. So I'm being patient. Sometimes I wish I had never gotten involved with him, so I wouldn't be in this dilemma. He has basically told me, he is not going to end things with her anytime soon. So what should I do? Please help.
What should you do? Run for the hills! This man will never be who you want him to be!
Let's take a listen to what Shirley and Steve have to say:
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